WHAT IF YOU HAD THE FREEDOM TO BE YOURSELF AND LIVE THE LIFE YOU WANT?
INSTEAD OF CONFORMING TO FIT OUTDATED STANDARDS OR SOCIETAL EXPECTATIONS, YOUR LIFE WAS BUILT TO FIT YOU AND REFLECTED EVERYTHING THAT MAKES YOU UNIQUE AND AMAZING.
WHAT IF YOU HAD THE FREEDOM TO BE YOURSELF AND LIVE THE LIFE YOU WANT?
INSTEAD OF CONFORMING TO FIT OUTDATED STANDARDS OR SOCIETAL EXPECTATIONS,
YOUR LIFE WAS BUILT TO FIT YOU AND REFLECTED EVERYTHING THAT MAKES YOU UNIQUE AND AMAZING.
IT’S NOT THAT YOU WERE TAUGHT BEING GAY IS WRONG, BUT RATHER THAT
BEING STRAIGHT IS RIGHT
IT’S THE DEFAULT,  IT’S EXPECTED
You grew up with all these ideas and messages about how to live your life and who to be. That there’s a path you’re supposed to follow. By 14, you could envision how your whole life would play out…or so you thought. 

It's confusing and overwhelming to discover parts of yourself that don't fit with who you thought you were and the life you pictured living. Let alone realizing your sexuality doesn’t fall in line with society’s idea of normal.

And You're Not Alone...

When I first realized I liked girls, I wasn’t sure what to do with that information. I had no clue what label to use, I just knew I wasn't straight. I didn’t even think to question if I was actually attracted to guys, told no one, and proceeded with life as usual for the next 4 years. 

Even after my first girlfriend, I still didn’t know what a life without a heterosexual relationship would look like. At the time, marriage and kids weren’t an option, dating apps didn’t exist, and celebrities coming out was a hot topic. Being gay seemed difficult and lonely.

How Could I Possibly Know If That’s What I Wanted? 

 I spent the next 6 years in a straight relationship, claiming I was bi, but feeling like a fraud. There was a huge part of who I am, that no one was seeing. But I was almost 30 before I realized how much this was impacting my life.
Have You Ever Wondered 
Why It's So Hard To Figure Out Your Sexuality? 
And Why You Constantly Question It's Validity?
  • Lack Of Representation In The Media How many mainstream cartoons, sitcoms, books or movies have you seen where the LGBTQ+ character/s get a normal storyline?
  • No Friends To Relate Or Talk To While they're all talking about their crushes, dating and relationships. You're super picky, care more about your work or hobbies than trying to date, and feel like the only difference between a BFF and a relationship is the sex.
  • No Safe Place To Explore Your Thoughts, Feelings And Questions LGBTQ+ isn't covered in our already lacking sex ed. So YouTube, TikTok and online forums become your go to for information and community connection. But nothing replaces the real life friend who gets that meme you found last night. 
  • You Live In A World That Continues To Debate The Morality Of Your Identity And If You Deserve Access To Equal Rights This one explains itself. 
basically, You Were Left To Sort Through The Complexities Of Your Identity By Yourself
It's a lot to unpack, so you to set it aside. Maybe it'll just go away on it's own? 
In the meantime, you work extra hard to ensure the rest of your life is as normal as possible.

 Even if you're out, you still don’t know what that means, or which label is the right one for you. Stuck in limbo between the gay and straight worlds, you never quite feel like you belong.

You question if you have the right to claim your LGBTQ+ identity, and wonder if it’s even real. You don’t look “gay enough,” you don’t have a big coming out story, you’ve never had a gay relationship and you’re seriously lacking in rainbow accessories. 

But really, it might seem easier to set your sexuality aside, go along with the norm and live the life that's expected of you, 
But What Are You Sacrificing In The Process?
YOU'RE SACRIFICING YOURSELF
Little by little, you'RE replacING the real you with a façade, JUST to fit in & be accepted
  • Placing others' wants and opinions above your own
  • ​Sacrificing and compromising to fit the mold of who you should be instead of allowing yourself to be real
  • ​Hiding everything about yourself even you have trouble accepting sometimes
  • ​Making yourself uncomfortable just to ensure everyone else around you is content
  • ​Remaining as neutral as possible in conversations, never saying how you really feel or voicing your honest opinion
  • ​Settling in your job, your relationships and in life because you believe it's all you deserve
  • ​Dressing to blend in, not as an expression of your personality or what makes you comfortable
  • ​Filtering everything you say to make sure you don't let anything slip to the wrong person or at the wrong time
  • ​Feeling like you need to be perfect to make up for all your defects or brokenness 
  • ​Avoiding LGBTQ+ spaces and events because you don't feel like you belong
  • ​Not claiming a label because you fear you might change your mind or be called out as a fraud 
NEXT THING YOU KNOW, 
YOU'VE LOST SIGHT OF WHO YOU ARE
  • Wondering if everyone feels this empty all the time
  • Going through the motions, checking all the boxes, waiting for your life to feel real
  • ​Lonely and isolated, worried if people knew the real you they would leave
  • ​Riddled with anxiety and depression that keep you from doing what you want or even need to do
  • ​Searching for answers and trying to figure out what's missing but never finding it
  • ​Questioning the point of living a life that doesn't feel like your own
IT DOESN'T HAVE TO BE THIS WAY

YOU CAN BE HAPPY & FUFLFILLED LIVING THE LIFE YOU WANT JUST BY BEING YOURSELF
YOU'RE SACRIFICING YOURSELF
Little by little, you'RE replacING the real you with a façade, JUST to fit in & be accepted
  • Placing others' wants and opinions above your own
  • ​Sacrificing and compromising to fit the mold of who you should be instead of allowing yourself to be real
  • ​Hiding everything about yourself even you have trouble accepting sometimes
  • ​Making yourself uncomfortable just to ensure everyone else around you is content
  • ​Remaining as neutral as possible in conversations, never saying how you really feel or voicing your honest opinion
  • ​Settling in your job, your relationships and in life because you believe it's all you deserve
  • ​Dressing to blend in, not as an expression of your personality or what makes you comfortable
  • ​Filtering everything you say to make sure you don't let anything slip to the wrong person or at the wrong time
  • ​Feeling like you need to be perfect to make up for all your defects or brokenness 
  • ​Avoiding LGBTQ+ spaces and events because you don't feel like you belong
  • ​Not claiming a label because you fear you might change your mind or be called out as a fraud 
NEXT THING YOU KNOW,
YOU'VE LOST SIGHT OF WHO YOU ARE
  • Wondering if everyone feels this empty all the time
  • ​Going through the motions, checking all the boxes, waiting for your life to feel real
  • ​Lonely and isolated, worried if people knew the real you they would leave
  • ​Riddled with anxiety and depression that keep you from doing what you want or even need to do
  • ​Searching for answers and trying to figure out what's missing but never finding it
  • ​Questioning the point of living a life that doesn't feel like your own
IT DOESN'T HAVE TO BE THIS WAY

YOU CAN BE HAPPY,  LIVING THE LIFE YOU WANT JUST BY BEING YOURSELF
I INVITE YOU TO
iMAGINE waking up to this...
  • Your dream reality is your life, not just maybe one day. As in, you're truly happy and fulfilled right now
  • ​Goodbye self-doubt and inner critic; you’re brave, independent and self-assured
  • Anxiety, fear and depression are no longer holding you back from pursuing your passions, enjoying your social life or going on adventures
  • ​Your success, happiness and life are entirely in your hands, not controlled by others
  • ​You've traded the pressure and overwhelm for simplicity and calm. Because you're clear on who you are, what you want & where you're headed 
  • ​You make decisions based on what's best for you and what's aligned to your path and not someone else's opinions or expectations
  • ​You no longer feel like who you are and who you want to be are 2 different people, you're just you
  • ​All your relationships (friends, family, work, & romance) are healthy and balanced, you finally feel seen and appreciated
  • ​You're done hiding, playing small or conforming to fit one size fits all boxes. You pursue what you want, voice your opinions and prioritize yourself and your wellbeing
  • ​You’ve fully accepted yourself and know your worth
  • ​YOU ARE FREE To Be YOU The Whole 100% Fully Authentic One Of A Kind YOU
This isn't a fantasy
it's entirely possible and closer than you think
Only 5 Spots Available
INTRODUCING: FREE TO BE ME
For LGBTQ+ womxn who want to confidently & authentically live life on their terms.
Get Started In Just 3 Simple Steps
Step 1
Let's meet! Pick a time that works for you so we can have a conversation & get to know each other. This way, we can ensure it's a perfect fit for both of us!

Step 2
Tell me about the one & only YOU!
Take a moment to answer a few questions. This allows us to get the absolute most out of our time together.

Step 3
It's go time!
No more waiting to be you or to own your worth. Let's get you that freedom, and start living the life you deserve!

INTRODUCING: FREE TO BE ME
For LGBTQ+ womxn who want to confidently & authentically live life 
on their terms.
Get Started In Just 3 Simple Steps
Step 1
Let's meet! Pick a time that works for you so we can have a conversation & get to know each other. This way, we can ensure it's a perfect fit for both of us!
Step 2
Tell me about the one & only YOU!
Take a moment to answer a few questions about yourself. This allows us to get the absolute most out of our time together.
Step 3
It's go time!
No more waiting to be you or to own your worth. Let's get you that freedom, and start living the life you deserve!
It's all about you
Free to be Me is specially designed to help you accept, value & prioritize yourself so you can confidently live the life you want.
3 Phases and 9 simple steps build a solid foundation for a life that's aligned uniquely to you. No 'one size fits all' here. We work closely together through a trifecta of deep self-awareness, emotional mastery, boundaries & communication. This isn't about fixing, changing or following yet another formula. It's about bringing out the amazing person you already are and owning that.

Just look at everything that's in store for you here:
PHASE 1

Bring out your most awesome self and get crystal clear on the life you want to create

The Real You

Who are you really?

Get back to the basics of your core identity so you can focus on what matters most to you. Finally release all that anxiety and overwhelm that comes from trying to do all the things. 

Your Roadmap

What do you want? 

Clarify your definitions and create a roadmap to the person you want to be and life you want to live. Go from feeling lost & searching, to clear & directed.

Your Story

How did you get here? 

Everything that created who you are today. Understand and accept your journey in order to create a fulfilling future. Get back to the self you lost, so you can start feeling whole again.
PHASE 2

Get in control of those emotions, so they stop controlling you

Identify

Learn to properly identify your emotions and discover why you feel and react the way you do. 

Silence your inner critic and repair the relationship you have with yourself.

Process

Gain control and learn to process your emotions quickly and effectively. 

Approach them from a new perspective and start feeling calm, cool & collected. 

Cope

Develop healthy coping mechanisms so your emotions stop holding you back.

Have the tools and develop the skills to handle life’s ups, downs and detours with ease.
PHASE 3

Strengthen your boundaries and communication so you can own your awesomeness and live by your standards

Escape Your Cage

Trade the outdated stories, beliefs, narratives and behaviors for ones that fit the life you want to live and the person you want to be.

Get unstuck and feel empowered to step into your most authentic self.

Own Your Value

Ensure that your outer reality matches you, your wants, your needs and your values. All through healthy boundaries and effective communication.

Become assertive and improve your relationships in all areas of life.

REWRITE Your Narrative

Now that you’ve built a solid foundation, learn how to stay true to yourself and stay on track as you move forward and grow as a person.

Own who you are, live the life YOU want, and feel confident you can handle anything life throws at you.
SUCCESS STORIES
Don't Just Take My Word For It, Here's What Others Are Saying:
"Life Changing!"
"Diana seriously changed my life for the better!! My confidence is up & I no longer feel like something is missing in my life. I know who I am, what I bring to the table & I am owning my worth! I started a great relationship, found an awesome job & moved into my own apartment. I’ve become the person I used to admire. After just 1 month, my friends were asking what I was doing cause they wanted in...I recommended them all to Diana! Working with her was the best decision I've ever made!" - Mara W.
"Never been so empowered!"
"There's just something about being seen and valued just the way you are. I've never been so empowered by just being myself. Diana helped me see myself in a whole new way. I've spent a lot of time searching for something that always felt out of reach. I signed up for coaching still searching for answers and I left with something so much better: ME! Once that happened things just started falling into place. Life became easy. If you're ready for real change in just a few months, then Diana is the right coach for you! " - Emily R.
"Finally in control of my life!"
"Working with Diana is such a fun and refreshing experience! She has a unique way of seeing and approaching the world that makes you challenge and rethink your own thoughts and perspective. For the first time since I was a kid I know who I am, what I want and where I'm headed. All my relationships have improved. I got back to hobbies that I never felt like I had the time for. I sleep better and I don't feel anxious all the time. I finally feel like I'm in control of my life and my happiness all thanks to Diana! " - Roni V.

Are you ready to join these amazing people and finally start living the life you deserve?

Hi! I'm Diana. Here to challenge the status quo & create a new narrative.

I SEE YOU, I KNOW YOU, BECAUSE

I WAS YOU

A couple months before my 30th birthday, my life was in an all-time low, as I found myself starting from scratch again. Fresh break up, no friends, new job and staying with my mom to save for my own apartment. This is not what I thought 30 would look like. How did I get here?

From abusive relationships to debt, depression, anxiety, figuring out my sexuality & so much more. My twenties were rough, but nobody knew, because I spent the entire time living 2 lives. The façade of having everything figured out, doing all the things and living a life other people admired. And the internal reality that I felt as if I was living someone else’s life. No one really knew ME and everyday ended with the hope I wouldn’t wake up in the morning.

I spent more than a decade ignoring my intuition and sacrificing my identity to fit the mold of who I thought I should be. Continually undervaluing myself and overvaluing everything else. All because I believed I was NOT ENOUGH.

After 3 decades of living for everyone but myself and looking externally for acceptance and validation; I was done. This was my life, & I was going to live it for me. I ditched the expectations, the advice, and the opinions. I stopped hiding who I was and accepted my past. I started doing the things I wanted to do and felt right for me and my life, not the status quo.  

2 years later, I was there. Genuinely happy and living the life I always dreamed of but never thought was possible. Great job, dream apartment, awesome friends who all know the real me, lots of travels and adventures; I could go on and on. It's crazy what doors open when you accept who you are and start living for yourself!

IF YOU READ THIS FAR, HERE'S MY

INVITATION

I’ve made it my mission to prevent as many people as possible from taking a similar path as me. You don’t have to wait to be happy. You don’t have to go through the pain and struggle just to be yourself and live the life you want.

But you do need to choose to get back in the driver's seat of your life. 

I know you keep saying "I'm fine", but we both know you're not really fine.

I know you hope you'll eventually figure it all out. But you're a smart, capable person, if it were that easy, you'd have it figured out and you wouldn't be reading this.

I also know you've started to give up: "maybe this is just the way life is, you can't always get what you want, I have to be responsible, maybe I should just settle."

Did you know, the #1 regret of the dying is: "I wish I'd had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me."

Too many people wait until it's too late to prioritize their life, their happiness and most importantly themselves. 

I DON'T WANT YOU TO BECOME ONE OF THEM
Are you going to choose to stay stuck and just let life happen to you?

Or are you going to take ownership and create the life you want?

By now you're ready for some details on how this works, what to expect & what makes Free to be Me different. Awesome!

YOU ARE THE DIFFERENCE
When I was in the midst of my low points, I searched everywhere for answers. But what I found was a lot of fluffy, incomplete and downright bad information. Through it all I discovered 2 main problems: 

1) They offer surface level, band-aid solutions. Never getting to the real issue.
2) They make you feel broken. It's all about fixing or changing you.

FACT: YOU ARE NOT BROKEN, SO YOU DO NOT NEED TO BE FIXED

Free to be Me is designed to get to the root of the problem and help you stay true to yourself; in spite of the broken system we live in. Instead of fostering a war by labeling parts of yourself as good or bad, this program develops a balance and acceptance of the self as a whole.

I took all my personal knowledge and experience, plus the experience of countless others, then filled it with the best resources I could find. But even with all that, the best part of this program, is you. Who you are, what you want, and what you value is the foundation of Free to be Me. Then we custom build around that.

HERE IS EVERYTHING YOU CAN EXPECT:
  • Highly Personalized Weekly/Bi-Weekly 1:1 Time set aside for you and only you, where the magic happens!  Escape the pressure, and allow your transformation to unfold. You don't have to worry about a thing as I guide you through the program and maybe even have some fun in the process.
  • ​Regular Progress Reviews to ensure that we are staying on track with your goals and creating the life you want. Never feel like you're not making progress or headed in the wrong direction.
  • ​Bonus Troubleshooting Calls in case you need to work through something urgent in between sessions, you won't be left hanging. Because you can't always plan when life is going to throw you a curveball.
  • ​Unlimited Voxer & Email Access for those random thoughts, questions or doubts that pop up during your day or week. No need to go through it alone, I'm by your side through your entire journey.
  • ​Free to be Me Mindset Workbook filled with the best of the best exercises, worksheets and information to dive deep and guide you every step of the way. Helping you not only through the program but as a resource you can utilize for years to come as you grow as a person.
  • ​LGBTQ+ Safe Space so you can let your guard down and talk to someone who gets it. I'm part of this community too and while self-acceptance is universal, we have more messages working against us. As well as different challenges and experiences.
  • ​Trauma Informed & Mental Health Aware so you don't have to worry about toxic positivity or someone telling you to "just get over it." I may be a positive person, but I don't shy away from reality.
HERE IS HOW IT WORKS:
You will be guided through 3 Phases:

Phase 1: YOU 101
Instead of overwhelming yourself with all the outside noise and pressure. We simplify things by focusing on you: your core identity, wants, and values. You need to know yourself, in order to accept yourself.

Phase 2: IN YOUR FEELS
This is all about emotional mastery. We repair the relationship you have with your emotions and develop the skills to process and manage them effectively. 

Phase 3: AUTHENTICALLY YOU
You've done all the inner work, now it's time to match your outer world to your inner world. We strengthen your boundaries and communication so you can own your awesomeness and get what you deserve!

"She makes me feel seen"

"Diana is so down to earth and a pleasure to work with. She makes me feel seen for who I really am. I've always felt safe to open up to her and would frequently lose track of time. I always looked forward to our sessions and would leave feeling calm, light and inspired. I highly recommend working with her." - Maddie P.

"Feel like yourself again”

"Working with Diana is unlike anything else. You feel like you're hanging out with a friend you've known forever. Then next thing you know, you're life's improving and you feel like yourself again. I don't know how she does it. She sees the best in you and all your potential and then gets you to see and believe it too!" - Taylor M.
WHAT IF...
Don’t worry, I got you covered. My primary objective is to get you the results you desire.
To get the most out of Free to be Me, it needs to be a good fit. Which is why our first conversation is 100% complementary and zero obligation. 
But that's just the start...

I'm confident you will notice a positive difference working together from our very first chat. So if you're not hooked and experiencing an impact after just 2 weeks I'll refund your full investment, no questions. Seriously!

I believe in you & know you're worth it! 
Question is, are you ready to believe in yourself?
STILL HAVE QUESTIONS?
If Your Questions Aren't Answered Below, Let's Chat About It!
How do I know this will work for me? I've tried so many things.
I get it, I've been there too. In fact, that was a major reason behind the creation of Free to be Me. There is a lot of surface level and misleading information out there.  I took all my personal knowledge and experience, combined with the best resources I could find to create Free to be Me. But honestly, the best part of this program, is you. You are the foundation and then we custom build around that. The cherry on top is I stick with you until you've got it.
How do the calls work/what can I expect during a session?
All our calls will be held over Zoom and typically last 1-1.5 hours. We start with a simple grounding exercise, quick check in and then dive right in. I'll mostly be asking open questions and guiding you through various areas of concern. You will have the option of getting session recordings or notes sent over afterward so you can refer back to them later.
What will I have to do? What's expected from me?
The most important thing is that you show up, commit to yourself and be open & honest during our sessions. Remember, this is about you and the life you want to create. That being said, sessions typically occur every 1-2 weeks. You will be provided a workbook filled with exercises, worksheets & information. I might suggest different exercises that I feel will benefit you; but generally, any homework is just an activity or commitment you made for yourself.
Can't I just do this on my own?
Technically, yes, but I don't recommend it. It took me many years and a great deal of mistakes and pain for me to get where I am today. You have everything you need to create the life you want already. So if it were easy, you'd be off living your happy life and not here. The thing is, we don't know, what we don't know. It's hard to take an objective view of our own lives, see the cycles we keep repeating and find a way out. Which is why most people stay stuck for years. This isn't about me or some secret sauce, it's about getting you where you want to be quickly, efficiently & painlessly.
I'm already seeing a therapist, how does that work?
On the surface, therapy and coaching might seem similar, but there's actually a number of differences. Many times, therapy and coaching can work great together and will lead to even better results! Just be sure to let your therapist know that you're working with a coach.
How long until I start to see results?
Free to be Me is designed to be a 6 month program but it won't take that long to experience a difference. Of course, everyone comes into coaching at a different place and unique goals so timing can vary. But typically, clients start noticing results about 4-6 weeks in. If you stay committed to yourself and your progress, the program will get you where you want to go.
How much does it cost?
1 on 1 coaching is highly personalized to fit your unique needs. For that reason, it's important we chat first, and pick the right package for your desired result.  If needed, payment plans are available. But I'd like you to consider the cost of not taking action: you, your happiness, and your life. This is an investment in the most important relationship you will ever have, your SELF. You are worth every penny and so much more.

NOW THE MILLION DOLLAR QUESTION IS

ARE YOU IN?

Don't spend another day living for anyone but yourself.
You deserve to be happy, authentic & free.
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